Charity begins at home for a toddler, though your toddler displays age-appropriate self centeredness and lack of empathy towards others. It is a gradual and subtle process. If started early, the seeds of charity will grow several years later.



Build a warm and cohesive atmosphere:

Studies show that children who are empathetic come from such backgrounds; being kind and loving is not enough as limits are necessary. Children grow into selfish adults without them.



Make giving a family tradition:

Toddlers love traditions. Giving at times when it is a tradition to give like during Diwalis is a good way to teach this value to your child. You should also inculcate in your child to give gifts to the lesser privileged children. Help him pick out a small gift and explain that some children don't have as many toys or clothes as him.



Giving is for all seasons:

Anytime is a right time to give; being open handed during New Year and a scrooge the rest of the year gives your child the message that charity need only be seasonal. So give whenever you can, and involve your toddler. It can be in the form of money or clothes and toys your family has outgrown. Like many actions of his parents, this deed too will stay ingrained in his mind and help him become a charitable adult later.



Give with a smile:

If your child gets the impression that giving is rewarding and satisfying instead of an obligation, he will be more likely to recognize the pleasure inherent in such deeds.



Don't expect miracles:

Since toddlers are self-centered beings, it is unfair to expect them to be models of generosity. Accept their stage of development while continuing to make a conscious effort to impart such values in your growing child.