When Baby
eats food off the floor
Does your baby drop food only to pick it
up and eat it? As particular you may be
about hygiene, you may overlook this sometimes.
When baby crawls she is sure to find whatever
you missed. Most parents worry that food
off the ground can harm baby when she eats
it. Don't panic. The germs on your floors
don't usually make your baby sick; food
eaten off a floor which is contaminated
with pet urine or feces could cause a problem.
If your baby drops her pacifier, you don't
have to rush and sterilize it in most cases.
Do rinse it off to remove dirt.
When your
baby is shy..
If your baby is shy, don't worry about it.
She may need some prompting or help in exploring
a new situation or environment. Shy children
do not have a low self esteem nor does shyness
affect her ability to make friends. Let
your child approach others; ease her into
new social situations gradually. Do not
force her into interactions that make her
feel uncomfortable. Pay attention to her
cues. If she is reluctant to leave your
side, she is just not ready to get into
a new situation. Encourage her to play or
get involved. As she grows older and with
your encouragement, she will probably be
less shy.
When you
say "No"...
Your baby may have difficulty obeying when
you tell him 'No' or 'Don't'. He may get
hurt or angry. That is ok since you are
doing it for his safety and health; there
is only so much you can do to babyproof
your home. At this point it is necessary
for baby to learn there will always be areas
that are off limits. This will make your
life a lot easier when you visit other people's
homes. If baby is used to having some things
not going his way, he is less likely to
throw a tantrum when you restrict him outside
your home.
Baby walkers
Baby walkers have been associated with a
number of injuries; a high number of babies
were treated in emergency rooms for walker
related accidents. Researchers also believe
that using a baby walker can delay a baby's
motor development and a to an extent baby's
mental development as well. Contrary to
popular belief a walker won't help baby
your baby learn to walk. He does use his
legs to propel himself in a walker but this
action doesn't strengthen the muscles he
needs to develop for walking. Baby gain
instant mobility with walkers; he can go
to places quickly on a walker as compared
to if he were scooting or crawling. That
means he can find himself in harm's way
in a moment. Being on wheels exposes baby
to other dangers such as a tumble down a
flight of stairs. Babies who could see their
feet when they were in a walker had close
to normal motor development. As such researchers
believe baby needs to see his feet for optimum
motor development. In order for baby to
learn from his environment, baby needs to
crawl to explore and this is not possible
when baby is mostly in a walker. Another
theory is that parents pay less attention
when baby is in walker hence parental interaction
is at a minimum. This translates to delays
in some aspects of development. If you do
buy a walker, choose one that is too wide
to fit through a standard doorway and one
that meets current safety standards. Be
sure it has a gripping mechanism to stop
the walker at the edge of a step. Limit
the time baby spends in a walker; give baby
plenty of floor time instead to develop
his motor skills. As an alternative consider
getting a stationary chair; they have no
wheels and cannot move. Baby sits in an
upright position while in it; these chairs
come with a large tray and some toys to
entertain baby.
Finger foods
Now is a good time to start on finger foods
if you have not already. Finger foods are
small, bite-sized pieces of food. Crackers,
teething crackers, pieces of toast, pieces
of cheese, small bits of meat, macaroni
are good finger foods. The object of giving
baby finger foods is to encourage self-feeding.
Since he can't use spoon efficiently yet,
using his fingers encourages him to practice
eating skills. Offer a variety of foods:
let baby touch and feel and smell the food.
Patience is necessary. It takes baby much
longer when he feeds himself.
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